You never care about their happiness-only YOUR happiness. You nit-pick and bad-mouth their chosen romantic partners openly. You attempt to control your children's lives so much that you try to manipulate their choices in romantic partners. Once someone does something you don't like, you bad-mouth them to everyone else. I have recounted a long-standing pattern of behavior from you that has not only affected me, but people I care about deeply:Įveryone has to walk on eggshells around you. I believe a good relationship is built upon love, care, emotional intelligence, and two-way communication. I believe that I deserve love and a relationship that is not one-sided.
I want to cut off contact because maintaining a relationship with you is preventing me from moving forward with my life in a healthy way. I wanted to give you this letter as an explanation to why I want to distance myself from you and why I don't want to continue having a relationship with you anymore. People have cut ties with you or have distanced themselves from you in the past and currently. I was expected to fix your problems and force myself to grow up and care for an adult who didn't seem to reciprocate care. I must somehow carry out task after task yet still change my whole life to revolve around you. You used me to get what you wanted, and you still expected to use me well into my adulthood. You just verbally, emotionally, and financially abused me.
I was hoping that if I did what you said you'd be happy or proud of me and I would get on your good side. I've spent years doing everything you asked, hoping you'd at least meet me halfway and have a good relationship with me. Most of my life was very much centered around you. While I felt like you made sacrifices at times, I think you could have done so much better to raise me and take care of me. I never had the courage to tell you these things until now. I’ve been wanting to write you this letter for a really long time. I am not writing this to hurt you, even though it might end up hurting you. I want to start out by saying that I’m writing this in order for me to heal.
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